A well-known Roman Philosopher had divorced his wife, and the talk around town was divided.
One day, he was standing in the market when he overheard a conversation going on behind him. “Wasn’t she beautiful? Wasn’t she chaste?”
He turned around, took of his shoe and said, “Look at my sandal. Isn’t it beautiful? Isn’t it well made? But who amongst you can tell me where it pinches me?”
I often think of that reply and how easy it is for all of us to quickly make judgements based on what we see and think we know.